Friday, January 03, 2025
Every Shape is capable of showing gratitude. But just like we show love, care, fear, anger, excitement, and other emotions differently, we all have our unique way of saying “Thank you!”
A Box might show gratitude with a simple, private statement or acknowledgement. Don’t mistake lack of emotion for a lack of gratitude. In fact, if the Box says it, the Box means it. No extra bells and whistles needed.
A Triangle might show gratitude by treating you like a VIP or rewarding you with an upgrade, a certificate of excellence, or an act of service.
A Circle might show gratitude with a hug, taking you to lunch, or a sentimental gift.
A Squiggle might show gratitude with an extra dose of enthusiasm, a surprise, a celebration, or rare treat!
The way we show gratitude is typically the way we like to be appreciated. However, not everyone likes what we like, so the key for effective appreciation, or even gift-giving, is to treat others the way they want to be treated.
Step into the shoes of the Rectangle. Seek to understand the Shape of others.
For example, I love to give gifts that are not the norm, and certainly not practical. That’s my Squiggle! But I have learned that some people don’t appreciate money spent on extravagant gift wrapping or an expensive piece of chocolate. They really prefer you hand them a bag of m&m’s in a grocery store bag. I realized that I was making the gift more about me than others.
It might not make sense to you, it might not seem practical enough, fun enough, special enough, or good enough to you, but you are not the one receiving your gift.
If you want to learn more about other PsychoGeometrics resources, including our online DIY modules, upcoming certification online classes, or how we can customize a team-building workshop for your group, feel free to reach out to me directly. Our team truly loves helping people leverage their Shapes for effective and influential communication!
Susan Hite, CEO, PsychoGeometrics, The Science of Behavior - The Art of Communication